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Love doesn’t fail—unexamined patterns do


Relationship ReWired
 is a community for people who are done repeating the same emotional cycles in love 

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The Relationship ReWired Coaching Community 

Stop the Patterns. Reignite the Fire. Become Unshakeable Together.

REIGNITE REAL DESIRE

Get back to that place of "can't keep my hands off of you"

REGULATED CONFLICT

Fight like you're on the same team instead of enemies

UNBREAKABLE TRUST

Build the safety that makes everything else possible

The relationship you want is on the other side of the patterns you're ready to leave behind

Join Preston & Alexi for a journey into deeper connection, shared purpose, and unwavering joy

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Our Relationship Philosophy

NERVOUS SYSTEM REGULATION

Your body holds the truth your mind tries to rationalize. We teach you to listen to it first — because you can't think your way out of dysregulation

EMBODIED RESPONSIBILITY

Stop the blame game. Own your part without shame. Real power lives in taking 100% responsibility for how you show up — regardless of what your partner does

CONFLICT AS INTIMACY

The fights aren't the problem — avoiding them is. We believe tension is a portal to deeper connection when you know how to move through it together

The Patterns We Help You Rewire

 The Shutdown Pursue Pattern

One of you chases connection, the other pulls away. We teach you how to regulate your nervous system so you can both stay present and connected

The Resentment Build-Up Pattern

Small hurts pile up until you're strangers. You'll learn the exact repair protocol to clear disconnection before it calcifies into contempt

The "Same Fight Different Words" Fight

You're not fighting about dishes or money. You're fighting because your bodies are dysregulated. Learn to address the real issue underneath

 The "I'm Doing All The Work" Pattern

One person over-functions, the other under-functions. We help both of you take 100% responsibility for your part so you're finally on the same team

The "We're Becoming that Couple" Pattern

You swore this relationship would be different. We give you the tools to actually make it different — starting with your nervous system

The Passion Fade Pattern

Desire dies when safety dies. We show you how to create the nervous system conditions that make attraction come back — naturally and powerfully

What Our Students Say

Preston & Alexi have taught me what it truly means to be IN relationship. Bringing ALL of me to it, not just parts of me I was taught were “acceptable.” Learning to be with and live from a whole place has shifted every relationship in my life — especially my relationship with my man, which has transformed in the most beautiful way.

- Crystal Sadlon

The work that I have done with Preston and Alexi has allowed me to become the strong, grounded, confident man that my woman needs to lead her and us through all of life’s ups and downs.

- Shaun Cooke

The work I did with Alexi and Preston helped me leave a 16-year toxic relationship, stay regulated through divorce, and step into a grounded confidence that’s magnetic.”

- Ruth Olivares

BEST TIME AND MONEY INVESTMENT WE'VE EVER SPENT in 19 years, both individually and as a couple.

- Syl Hendershott

We learned a better more fulfilling way to communicate with each other and both feel seen and heard

- Shannii Da Costa

Working with Alexi & Preston taught me how to stay connected to myself through the ups and downs of relationships while reclaiming my boundaries and worth. I now feel confident, grounded, and ready for a healthy partnership without settling.

- Amie Barksy 

What You Get

2x/ Month Live Coaching with Preston & Alexi

Couples and Singles. Real patterns. Bi-Monthly live group coaching with awareness of your specific dynamics and the exact tools to shift them

Nervous System Practices to to Support Your Rewiring

Body-based tools you can use IN THE МОМЕNТ when you're triggered, shut down, or about to say something you'll regret

Exclusive Relationship ReWired™ Content

High-impact content to regulate your relationship. Your blueprint for lasting transformation

Private Community Access

Connect with other couples doing the actual work — not performing connection, but building it for real

 

GET THEY LOVE YOU WANT (STARTING TODAY)

Meet Your Guides 

Alexi Panos

Alexi Panos is an internationally recognized facilitator, author, and transformational guide.

With over a decade of experience leading breakthrough trainings, Alexi brings a rare blend of fierce truth, deep compassion, and embodied leadership to every room she steps into.

Preston Smiles 

Preston Smiles is a world-renowned personal freedom coach, speaker, and master facilitator who has led transformation experiences for thousands people around the globe.

He brings heart, fire, spirituality and a lifetime of devotion to the art of transformation.

Our Life Together Includes...

12 years married. 4 Kids. Infinite Reinventions.

We have navigated the same patterns you're facing. Our approach is not just theory; this is exactly what worked when our own relationship was on the line

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STRENGTHEN YOUR RELATIONSHIP TODAY WITH RELATIONSHIP REWIRED

  • 2x Monthly live coaching calls where Preston & Alexi identify YOUR specific patterns in real-time
  • Somatic regulation practices you can use IN THE MOMENT when triggered
  • Identity Shifts for Conscious Relationship
    Clear identity transitions that move you out of survival and into responsibility, truth, and partnership.
  • Exclusive Relationship ReWired™ Content to regulate your relationship. Your blueprint for lasting transformation
  • Private community of couples doing the deep work alongside you (a place to write and get support 24/7)
  •  BONUS: The Emergency Repair Kit
    A go-to framework for moments of conflict to help you reconnect, regulate, and get back on the same team.

  •  BONUS: Connection Questions
    Curated questions designed to reignite curiosity, depth, and emotional intimacy — without forcing conversations.

  •  BONUS: The Relationship Bank Account Framework
    Learn how to make consistent emotional deposits that build safety, resilience, and intimacy. 

  • BONUS: 1-Day Live Relationship Rewired Retreat (Austin, Fall 2026)
    An in-person immersion with Preston & Alexi for yearly members (or monthly members after 6 month

 $247

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What We Do Differently 

Relationship ReWired gives you everything in one place: 

Weekly Live coaching with Master Coaches, Preston Smiles & Alexi Panos

 Nervous system education to change patterns permanently 

The complete Relationship Rewired framework to practice over and over

Repair protocols that are beyond just "better communication."

Community support, so you never feel you're going at this alone

 Somatic practices to regulate in a tense moment

 

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This Is Your One-Stop Shop for Relationship Transformation

Most people collect random advice from podcasts, therapy, books, friends — and wonder why nothing sticks.

Here's why: You're treating symptoms, not rewiring patterns.

Relationship ReWired gives you EVERYTHING in one place 

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Frequently Asked Questions

ALL YOUR QUESTIONS ANSWERED HERE